Are You a Ms. I’ll Fix Him?

You may be a Ms. I’ll Fix Him if you continue to choose men to date (or marry) who have (or create) lots of life drama and you want to make it all better for him. You want to soothe him. Or baby him. It makes you feel needed. It’s a nurturing thing on steroids….

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19 Myths About Online Dating Explained

The myths about online dating are abundant, but before you dive in or give up, check out these answers. 1. The commercials of all the happy couples are fake. Of course commercials portray the ‘happily ever after’ scenario though I know of real couples who have met and married through online dating so this myth…

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You Won’t Know Until You Try

In the world of deliberatedating.com, and even in my book, I talk about knowing yourself, what you want, and having the courage to live your standards. Part of doing so includes giving the guy a chance. You know the guy I mean… he doesn’t quite fit what you picture in your mind to be the…

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Should I Go to a Singles Dating Event?

The short answer is YES you should to go the singles dating event with your friends. Another answer is WHY NOT? A third is WHAT’S HOLDING YOU BACK? Why You Should Go to a Singles Dating Event It’s fun! Ok, maybe for you it’s petrifying though look at it as an adventure. You can stay home, again, and…

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Are you dating the man or his calendar?

Let’s say you met a man with serious potential to be The One though the thought of including dates with him in your schedule is mind boggling. He could be thinking the same thing. Like you, he had a life before he met you too. You decide to give it a shot. After all, he’s…

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