Protecting Your Heart – Can it be done?

Last week I was speaking for a singles group in the Kansas City metro area.  When I asked about the group’s biggest dating questions, one courageous person asked “How do I protect my heart and still date?” I applaud this person for asking a question that was certainly on the minds of others. The blunt…

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Does He Have the “Right” Package?

Have you ever heard the expression, “the right man doesn’t always come in the right package.” The woman who asked me about this phrase was very concerned because she found a man she liked who didn’t really meet her idea of who she thought she “should” be with. He didn’t have the “right” job and…

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Say ‘Yes’ to the Setup?

I can already hear your knees shaking just by reading this week’s title. Some of you are thinking, “Do you mean blind date?” “Yikes!” Others are thinking – “I’ve already done that and I won’t ever do it again.” What really baffles me is when women refuse to go out on a blind date and…

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What’s a Dating Deal Breaker?

Your deal breakers are things required for you to be interested in someone. This isn’t your list of things you’d “like to have” or even “must have.” This is the list that’s truly so essential you’d automatically pass on someone who didn’t meet them. Yep – I said automatically pass. How many deal breakers you…

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What Does He Get When He Pays?

The first date scenario went like this. They met at the movie theater and he paid for the show for both of them. Given they didn’t meet for coffee or lunch or even dinner first, there was zero conversation before sitting in a dark theater together. (No, I don’t recommend only going to the movies…

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