I Don’t Want to Scare Him Off

“Don’t want to scare him off” is a phrase I’ve heard, and have used myself in the past. If he’s interested in you or wants to be in a relationship with you, he won’t be scared. If he is scared, it could be your values don’t match, you don’t have the same expectations about a…

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Choosing Who Gets a Chance with Fantastic You

There’s a big difference between who you end up with versus who you choose. End up with implies he arrived on your door step and you lost your ability to think for yourself. Like you had no options. No, I’m not talking about the weak in the knees feeling making your tongue tied. I mean…

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Dating by Text Messages?

It is truly astounding to me that people are attempting to date and build relationships, or they think it’s a relationship, by texting a majority of their communication. It’s a rarity in these cases to actually talk voice to voice. I ask you to fast forward with me… if this was a real relationship, are…

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“But… He’s Different!” – Part 2 of Your Cinderella Head is Showing

I’m guessing “But… He’s Different!” may have escaped your lips at some point. Maybe even with a tilt of your head and hope in your eyes. If you were reading last week’s post, you learned about the programming few women escape that I’ve named Cinderella Head. Well, our Cinderella Head creates the “But… He’s Different!” condition. I’ve heard…

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Are You a Cinderella Head? – Part 1

Few women escape the programming that starts at the beginning of our lives: be a princess and wait for prince charming to come and rescue us. What we’re being rescued from is still a mystery, though I am certainly a product of that belief, and those experiences. The programming issues surface as they translate into…

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