He’s Great! Well… Except for… – Dating Men You Want to Change

Choosing to date someone you want to change is a waste of time. Even if you’re trying to expand his fashion sense, you’re trying to change him. No one, including you, wants to date someone who wants to change them – like they aren’t good enough to be accepted the way they are. Why would…

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Dating and Gifts During the Holidays

There are no hard and fast rules about dating and gifts during the holidays, though here are my thoughts. If you have been seeing someone for little awhile, get something small. If you aren’t seeing anyone exclusively, it’s up to you if you’d like to choose something. In either case, don’t go overboard on spending….

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The Central Exchange Presents Personal Enrichment Author Debra Kunz

Join award-winning author Debra Kunz as she shares practical life wisdom from her newly released personal enrichment book, Love is Blind Only if You Are: A Woman’s Clear-Headed Guide to Deliberate Dating. Tuesday, December 11, 2012 Noon – 1:15 pm Kansas City Area: 6201 College Blvd, Overland Park, KS 66211 Register at www.centralexchange.org In our quest for love, we’re all…

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What others are saying about “Love is Blind Only if You Are”

“I will give this book to every woman I know who is serious about finding a lasting relationship.” –Rebecca Forster,USAToday Best Selling Author “In her perky, no-nonsense dating manual, Debra Kunz brings her business savvy to the marketplace of romance and teaches women how to date smart and make relationship choices that really work.” –Dr….

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Welcome to DeliberateDating.com!

Hi Everyone, My name is Debra Kunz, author of Love is Blind Only if You Are. I’m so happy to have you as a visitor to my blog about my new book. This project is very special to me, and I hope to share some of that excitement with you here. Please share your thoughts, feedback…

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