Are your Relationship Goggles keeping you from finding him?

Relationship Goggles are more blinding than beer goggles given relationships goggles blind you to more than his appearance. Relationship goggles means you’re viewing the next guy based on the last one, and measuring the next relationship based on the failures of the last. It’s not fair to him, or to you. If you make a…

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How do I exit a date I’m still on?

Have you ever been on a date and learn he doesn’t meet a deal breaker, and you start thinking, “How can I leave? Right now?” I received this question this week so I thought I’d share the answer with everyone. In this particular scenario, she and her date went to a concert. I’d say there…

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Please Vote – Best Dating Book and Dating Blog 2013 Nominations

Today I’m sharing some exciting news! My book, Love is Blind Only if You Are: A Woman’s Clear-Headed Guide to Deliberate Dating, has been nominated as the Best Dating Book, and my “Deliberate Dating” Blog has been nominated as Best Dating Blog. Please help me out by voting for both nominations below! Click on the picture…

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When Good Still Isn’t Mr. Right

You might discover a man who is good, kind, and decent… and he still isn’t the right one. This is a difficult situation for your head and your heart, though it is an example of knowing yourself, trusting your instincts and your decisions, and having the courage to use your standards. This happened to me. I…

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First Date Tips – What do I say?

First dates are brimming with anticipation, excitement, questions and curiosity. With all of that energy, the number one question, besides what should I wear, is what do I say??? What should I talk about? What should I share? What if it gets quiet? Stop worrying and take a breath. After you figure out your outfit,…

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